Aitk? My friends didnt consider asking me to go out while we were on a trip.

Ok so me and my friends are on a trip

We are like 18ish

Assume i am A ( girl)

B (another girl with me)

C & D ( the 2 guys with us)

I got sick on the very first day of the trip (while traveling itself)

I got cold basically ( not big deal and mild fever)

But obviously the trip was planned and we went along I took my medicines and didnt take anything cold

Now

This is the last day of the trip we all decided we will not be sleeping and just hang out in the hotel room all night as it was raining heavily

Then we got little tired and went to our rooms

I made sure to tell B that im not sleepy and just laying down (just because if any plan was made suddenly or anything I would be called too)

Now while I was resting C came to our room and asked the B if she want to go and roam around

I too got up cause obviously I heard them and I wanted to go too ( as we are on a group trip)

(And no one’s dating or flirting in our group)

[C never directly asked me to hang out with him it was me who got up and told him I will go too]

He kept saying youre sick you should not as its raining a little and I kept saying that I dont mind ajs its the last the of trip and I just wanna enjoy at this moment (i genuinely felt a little better the last day)

He said the same thing again youre sick you should not go but if you feel we’re not including you then just tell us

I kept saying i feel a lot better and I wanna enjoy

But he kept saying the same thing thrice and I gave in saying okai whatever I wont go

And the guy and girl went along

But after closing the door i realised that I should not be in the hotel at the last day and hence I immediately called them and asked them to stop and wait for me

Now we 3 (A B & C)were waiting downstairs at 4 am we had 2 scooty and I don’t know how to ride one but rest all know

They already asked D and be said no as he was sleepy

(So either tripling but it was too risky or 2 people in 1 scooty and 1 person in the other scooty thats how we would go)

But B said she will not drive as its raining

Now they wanted me to go back and them to go our and enjoy cause ( i was the one who’s not well so naturally I should be the one to sacrifice going out)

But hell naww we are on a group trip together and we’ve all been pretty good friends who always look out for each other

So then the decision came that no one’s going anywhere as it cant be helped

( i felt bad that B cant go cause of me but man come on I also wanted to go and we’re all equal)

Here D tried telling me since he is not going its not possible for everyone to go so hence I should sacrifice going out and I clearly said bro why me? I also obviously wanna go

Now we all gathered in 1 room and I clearly said that I felt bad cause C asked B to go out and not me ( in the sense that why only her and not all of us)

Both C and D told me that just because i was sick one they didnt consider it necessary to ask me at all weather i wanna go or not and naturally decided that B should be the one to go ( as C could choose only 1)

I was simply stating a basic thing that if I was sick beyond tolerable limits I wouldn’t have joined the trip and it is my decision weather i want to go out in rain or not ( i am 18 not a baby who cant make a rational decision)

But they kept arguing that they are right and they just naturally thought that I am sick hence they should not ask me

( my whole point was that we all all 4 good friends and it was their task to atleast ask me weather i wanna go or not rather than just thinking on their own that I should not go)

But they kept telling me that they didnt wanna be responsible if i got sick and they know how parents of female are they will blame the guys in the trip and hence they are absolutely right and I am completely wrong

(Then again my parents knew i was sick the 1st day

It wasnt life threatening sick, i was sick while going on trip and travelling i handled that I handled 2 days of trip without complaining even 1 single time, and hence if i want to go or not should be my decision not theirs)

Also they said that someone should sacrifice always and D wasnt also going so I should not feel sad as not everyone was going

( atleast they asked D weather he wants to go or not

I wasnt at all askeddddd)

I wanted this conversation so that there is no bitterness in our friendship and whatever matter happened can be resolved at that time itself

But the conclusion was that I am wrong and I cant figure out why But I am wrong and the men are right

I HAVE CLEARLY MENTIONED THERES NOTHING GOING ON BETWEEN B AND C THERE IS A REASON WHY I HAVE MENTIONED THIS PLS RESPECT THAT